This cross-country voyage of 96 days and 10,200 miles (16,415 km) would not have been possible without the many family and friends who welcomed us into their homes, took time out to be with us and showered us with provisions. People keep asking us which is our favorite place but I can’t think of any one impressive place although if you ask me if I could choose to live anywhere among the areas we visited, it’d be Imperial Beach.
However, my real favorite part of the trip is definitely meeting up and having long conversations with old and new friends. Joshua and Jimmy also can’t think of one place which they like the most but what they like best is being with other kids, the numerous playmates along the way. So in the end, it doesn’t matter where; it’s not so much about the place but about the people.
We have a lot of people to thank — for giving us shelter, for cooking for us, for treating us out and for letting Jason use their kitchen to whip up his magical Chinese meals. He has blossomed into an ambassador of China making his love for hotpot and tea a contagious disease. More than the place, travel is about food, food, food, plus discovering people’s personal paradises more than mere sightseeing or ticking items off a bucket list. Everyone’s warmth and generosity has touched and blessed our family.
Edmund and Darin, we carried your Marathon water bottles from the start to finish line. The Chevy Avalanche was a dream to drive which through your help, we were able to find, purchase and sell.
Cotton and Bill, we look forward to more park dates with Jade and Noah in the future. Noah’s shoes joined Jimmy in his adventures all the way to New York but we did part with the Lego along the way when the two kids fought over them.
Nanie, I hope you meet up with Cotton more often after our crazy night-out.
Tita Jona, the tent you gave us was the first one we ever had where we could stand up inside since it was so spacious. Your pied-à-terre will forever be associated by the kids with their first encounter with Alexa. Kwenby, it was fun recreating our pose from our seventies Sanrio days. You’re the Hello Kitty to my Twin Stars.
Egay, the big bottle of peanut butter lasted and served us during emergencies and I wouldn’t have been able to figure out Spotify (which sustained the kids throughout the long drives) without you. The kids never stopped singing the theme song from Steven Universe thanks to Gabbi‘s introduction.
Claire, your construction paper was transformed into thank you cards by Joshua and Jimmy in many stops. Whenever we go through a gate that opens automatically by remote control, they think of you and throughout our trip, I found myself continuing our conversation in my head.
Danny, when we hear Broadway musical songs, we remember you and your 300-strong group. What a happy night we had at your rehearsals! Thank you for making it easy for us to see stars in Hollywood.
Tita Joesy and Tito Sonny, even if we missed seeing you, we are forever grateful that all your children warmly hosted us in their homes – Lareina in Thousand Oaks and Leo, Lil and Jay in Eastvale. I remember how you were always raving proudly about them and now I understand why. Jimmy enjoyed playing dress-up with your granddaughter Bella while Lauren was a great host to my sons.
Ate Badz, you know I’ve always wanted to meet Ismael and after seeing you two, I’m happy and inspired how the two of you take such good care of each other. Sana ganun din kaming mag-asawa.
It was amazing serendipity how Bill Myers agreed to meet with us through the books given by a boy, Silas in Xishuangbanna. Bill met with us bringing autographed copies of Secret Agent Dingledorf and even read for the boys. Bill introduced to us, Jason, one of his students who happened to be from Tianjin. What are the chances, right?
Ashley, Jacob and Teddy, you are our first worldschooling family stop in the States. Jimmy is always talking about how Minnie wakes him up by licking his face and we’ll never forget the ride on your tuktuk. We look forward to hearing about your work-away adventure in Iceland and your travels through Europe and the rest of the world.
Tita Baby, what a feast you prepared for us! Nijel and Elaine, how sweet of you to indulge in Jimmy’s obsession with Paw Patrol. Tita Baby, we were able to catch our breath after two nights of camping and had a truly relaxing stay in your Las Vegas house.
Lesley, if it weren’t for you, we wouldn’t have experienced living in a cozy mobile home and we wouldn’t have discovered this oasis of a community in the middle of the desert, complete with hot spring pools. Beckett with his boundless energy was a good match for Joshua and Jimmy. Lesley, thanks for ensuring that we have hosts in your other home in Calgary.
Nolan and Carter, Jimmy had a blast roaming and exploring the Mojave Desert with you guys.
Tammy, the ghosts of Virginia City will haunt us always, as well as your overflowing spirit of generosity and warmth.
Lisha and Collin, the boys enjoyed the big bonfire in the cold morning and getting the chance to chop firewood plus what a treat to tour Zoe and Nate‘s “forest school.”
Miranda, the boys tumbled down the stairs and went wild in the basement with Dexter and Theo who then enjoyed the stunt, off-road bike park with Joshua.
Lisha and Miranda, it’s refreshing to see the much simplified, sustainable lifestyle of your family which is in sharp contrast to the consumerism your countries are known for. I had to google family cloth.
Danielle, I am so happy to meet Kurt at last! Marion, I treasure our talk about Bah’ai and your mini musical concert with Danielle. Jason enjoyed hearing the Chinese songs. Joshua sorely misses Toren. I picture Danielle and Marion playing boggle and Toren on the trampoline.
Julia and Julio, our stay in your St. Cloud home was everything you said it would be – long and leisurely. We blended in with the locals because of your generous preparations even before we arrived. How could we ever forget Mhong night, two Easter egg hunts and the hilarious talk with Summer?
Vinny, your research laboratory was awesome and knowing you was even more awesome.
Kirsten and Ruben, you introduced our kids to Awana (where Joshua sang, danced and shopped) and you took care of them when we needed to rush to the city at night. We are grateful for the playdates with Henry, Soren and Bjorn (Their Chinese level is amazing!) and for the sparkle box that kept us afloat.
Rinna and Chris, you know what a God-ordained meeting it was despite the unexpected. Joshua and Jimmy now want to get a corgi because of Sir Ollie and Tommy.
Hossein, you held on tightly to your filmmaking dreams and look where it’s taking you – Cannes! I appreciate listening to your story of perseverance and the universe conspiring to make things work in your favor. Jimmy enjoyed making homemade muffins with Laura and eating the strawberry crepes with Marjan who was a model older sister to Joshua and Jimmy. It was lovely meeting Karen and seeing Kayhan and Janan so grown up.
Florence, we will be hanging your beautiful paintings on the wall of our new home. So wonderful to bridge the gap of time and two continents.
Joanna and Jonathan, because of you we were able to try the best pizza in Chicago and bike ride to the school playground with Allyn, Dean and Dylan.
Ken, to add to our Nottingham memories, now we have sipping wine in your kitchen with Karen, boodle fight, hotpot in your home with a magnificent view, the maple syrup festival and our four kids enjoying themselves to the hilt. JJ and Alicia, Moana songs form a special part of our trip because of you.
Lally, your invitation to the Royal Ontario Museum worked to keep the kids busy while we were able to catch up. Without your help, I wouldn’t have known about nor had the opportunity to visit the Dr. Jackman Institute of Child Study Laboratory School. Your daughter, Avery was an excellent tour guide and I hope next time, she and Coco can play with Joshua and Jimmy.
May and Bill, from homemade beer to craft beer, what a chillaxing stay in Framingham which happened to be strategically located for my research work as well. The boys love Aidric to bits. Even goodbye was chillaxing flying the styrofoam airplane.
Peter, who could sit through a boring, detailed discussion of the alternative schools I visited and listen to me blab about this education research? Only you, plus the privilege comes with omelet, lake, forest and potential kayak trip if the weather was more cooperative.
Auntie Inyang, you spoiled us with your homecooked meals which took us back to the Philippines. Uncle Pabling, you helped Jason get the Avalanche ready for the photo shoot. While Uncle Pabling drove us to Jocelyn’s place, Auntie Inyang’s many stories kept me riveted.
Jocelyn and Paul, it’s like we made it to Cape Cod with your lobsters and a quick trip to Duxbury beach. Kylie swings like Tarzan from a rope hanging from the tree and Jimmy kept asking for her days after our visit.
Rick, after several skype sessions with you about my PhD proposal, we finally meet in person and I get to update you how the thesis has evolved to become something else different. Thank you for showing me YOUR Cambridge.
Gambel, hanep na daig lahat ng counselors at therapists na pinagsama-sama all in one plus more. Jun, walang walang makakatalo sa sipag at sarap sa pagluto. Kara and GJ, my kids couldn’t have asked for better playmates. Despite the age gap, you guys rocked their world!
Peggy, grabe perfect New York escape talaga. Wala akong masabi. Marion, please make sure Peggy gets your bike and gets into fencing.
Denise, the Supermom/Wonder Woman, I look forward to knowing where Basti will be heading in the future.
Tonyboy, June, Veronica and Sophia, best impromptu barbecue ever! Hope all goes well in the crossroads decision making we’re all praying for. We’ll remember fondly how Abigail led us up and down the dam park and showed how to make stop-motion videos using her phone.
Ate Bigi doesn’t want any mention in blogs but I hope she knows how happy I am always to see her.
Tita Shereen gave something that she has been holding for me for over a year, the most precious gift of Ma’s book of selected quotes, “Thoughts in Times of Trouble.”
Ninang Lin, we were all thrilled to watch Lion King. The kids savored kayaking, biking, feeding the swans and visiting the beach. Max, they also had a freezing and short swim with Harry in the pool.
Jerry, we were bowled over when you brought out your foldable ping pong table that filled the living area, ping pong machine plus rolls of cardboard to contain the balls when they fell on the floor. Joshua had a rollicking great time with you teaching him the moves while Jimmy “fell in like” with Auroja. Finding the books on alternative education in Jerry’s home-office was a dream come true for me.
Acela, oh to be among those trees both on the ground in the arboretum and up in the air at the Adventure Park. David, the barbecue was superb and the breakfast sustained us in the airport. Bu, the purple shirt you gave Joshua is now one of his favorites, a souvenir connecting him to you.
Melody and Andre, I truly miss climbing mountains with you and though, we didn’t have time for a trek, seeing you even for a short time was enough to rekindle our AMCI days.
Mew Yee, you are living our New York dream in a “secret” island to boot! Ning and Hue, I admire your way and patience with kids. Kin Hui, I haven’t finished “Ego is the Enemy” but I got too curious about Ryan Holiday’s other book and started reading “The Obstacle is the Way.”
Cass, I really think you should publish your children’s books. Matthew and Sophie are so lucky. We were able to enjoy lying on the grass with Mew Yee while Choy and Jason had their men’s talk because there were two excellent babysitters equipped with bubbles.
Jeanette and Will, your brood of five, Janelle, Genevieve, Giana, Justin, Jessica, made Jimmy’s birthday wildly unforgettable. If you didn’t let us “park” our kids at your place, I don’t know how we could have attended that forum in Princeton.
Tita Gloria, watching you cook in your kitchen brought back so many memories of our days with Lola Pilar. Vincent and Anna, your three daughters are so bursting with talent.
Eric, thank you very much for Jimmy’s birthday cake “from America.” Although we are sad parting with Eve the Avalanche, we are comforted by the fact that she is now with a wonderful family who will love her perhaps even more than we could because she will stay with you much longer.
Eve, just perfect-for-us Eve.
My dad was worried sick during this whole time we were travelling even if I kept re-assuring him that we’re okay. He didn’t know we had so many angels taking such good care of us. It was also my dad, mom and Tito Ahing who made this trip possible for our family for which we are eternally grateful. Actually, we have to thank our whole family in China and the Philippines for understanding that we needed to undertake this trip.
I am sorry I wasn’t able to see Jan, Lloyd, Mel and Vibes in Vancouver. I’m dreadfully sorry we missed Maisie in Windsor when we were so near in Toronto but she was on holiday back in China. And I apologize we weren’t able to go down further from NY to visit Yancey in South Carolina and Rusty in Florida.
This pick-up truck was our home for three months. Home is any place where the four of us are together. The people who welcomed us enlarged our hearts and our home. Words are never enough to express our gratitude, so until next time!